When
there is a severe storm, birds with small wings are caught up in it, but large
birds with strong wings fly upwards and save themselves from becoming victims
of the storm.
On the
basis of this phenomenon there is a saying in the English language. “Big birds
of the storm.” This applies to people of high thinking, to those who can save
themselves from the environmental storm. That is they can live on their own
without becoming affected by the external world.
Who are
the ‘big bird’ of the storm? They are the ‘big bird thinkers’ who can live
independently, drawing on their own mental resources. Big bird thinkers are
those who do not become angry even when provoked. They are those who maintain
their positively even in negative situations, who can control their thoughts in
such a way that they can see all men and women as human beings, whether friends
or foes, and who can keep the peace even if others turn violent.
‘Big
bird thinkers’ are those who are so mature that nothing can distract them from
their objectives, who give well considered responses when in adverse
situations, rather than simply indulging in an emotional backlash.
There is
a saying in Hindi “Kuttu bhonkte rehte hain our hathi chalta rehata hai” – the
elephant walks on without being disturbed by barking dogs. This is the best
illustration of one who has the capacity for ‘big bird thinking. Life is full
of storms, full of barking, full of untoward situations – these things are due
to the laws of nature and no one is in a position to abolish the laws of
nature. So you have only two options; either to waste your time and energy by
constantly stopping to reactionary behavior or to ignore all undesirable
situations and try to live like the elephant in the adage. Elephant style living
is the only successful way to live in this world.
‘Big
bird thinking’ is only another name for spiritual thinking. Spirituality is not
something mysterious; it is positive thinking. All spiritual people are
positive thinkers and all positive thinkers are spiritual in nature.
Spirituality and positive thinking are almost synonymous with each other.
There is
a beautiful story in Hindu mythology: Once a man became furious and he kicked
Ram in the chest. Ram’s response was quite unique. He said: “Mere lokhan seene se tumhare komal paunwen ko chot to nahi
lagi?” I hope your soft leg was not hurt by
my iron chest.
Spiritual
behavior is friendly behavior towards every human being – to both friends and
foes alike. Spiritual behavior is like the behavior of flowers that can live
with all their fragrance in the neighborhood of thorns.
An Urdu
poet has beautifully expressed this: “Gulshan
parast hoon mujhe gul hi nahi azeez, kaaton se bhi nibah kiya jar aha hoon mein” –I am a lover of nature, I don’t only love flowers, but I
can live normally with thorns as well.
Spirituality
is good for the all round development of the individual’s personality, for it
makes you free of tension and friendly towards all. Spirituality is the way to
all kind of success.
Positive
thinking makes you a ‘big bird thinker’ and ‘big bird thinking’ imbues the
human character with spirituality. Although this is an inner wquality, it is
this inner quality that has the power to better all your external affairs.
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