Inculcates Good Habits
Getting rid of habits is almost
an impossible task for most people. These seem to become stronger with time and
carry tremendous force of attraction. One gets driven by his old habits. The
magnetic force of one's tendencies attracts compatible thoughts, friends,
circumstances and things, which further strengthen the corresponding habits.
Habits thus expand their roots and eventually influence one's intrinsic
character too.
The firm roots of old habit don't
let the seed of new ones, of different nature, grow. … One therefore fails in
adopting new, better habits and loses hopes of improvement. This is not the
right approach. If you were to uproot an old habit, you must first understand
that it is only you who had sown it; it is because of your inclination,
interest and long term practice that it became a part of your nature. It will
require at least half the time to weaken it; so have patience and continue your
efforts of uprooting it by the carrot and stick approach.
Be alert! Warn and punish
yourself for repeating it and at the same time divert your interest towards the
new, improved creative activities. Encourage and reward your mind for every
success in this attempt. Change your routine, change your company and most
importantly change your attitude and thoughts. Ponder over elevated thoughts;
confidence and zeal to upbeat your strive and prepare the grounds for
inculcation of virtuous habits.
Improve the State of Your Life
If you vow to refine and elevate
your thinking and thereby transform the inner domains of your life, the status
of your external life will also ascend. Gradually you will attain all your
deserving goals successfully and gracefully.
If you are entrapped by the
mental aberrations and weaknesses like anger, anxiety, jealous, greed, or
depression, etc, you should forget about achieving something worth in life. You
should first overcome these deficiencies of your mind and have sound health and
mental and physical activity.
Always think positively. Think
about making the best use of whatever you have, rather than complaining or
worrying about what you don't have. the system of Nature is such that whatever
you possess - be that wealth, children, resources, post, etc - that will be
cease to be yours if you ignore, neglect or misuse it. Once you review and
understand your strengths and weaknesses and then analyze your expectations
with respect to your circumstances and ponder over them, your trenchant
thoughts would themselves pave the way for your rise and progress.
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